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Holding on Together / Amy K's avatar

One simple but powerful thing that’s really helped me: to stop fighting the non-linear way I approach tasks. I am very late diagnosed (in my mid-50s) and my whole life I had naturally thought I should be doing things the way most people do them, which is linearly: doing one thing at a time, completing it, moving onto the next, and repeat. Once I learned that my pattern of starting multiple tasks at once was due to the way my brain fired, I stopped fighting it. Now I allow myself to do things “my way” whenever possible. This has lifted so much of the negative self-judgement, really helping with my overall self-esteem and even sense of accomplishment.

Btw, the medication in the morning before waking…I need to try that. Waking up is incredibly hard for me and always has been.

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Mark's avatar

The calendar is my biggest tip, if it doesn't go on the calendar I don't attend, because I don't remember. I used this before I knew I had ADHD because as soon as I was able to outsource the job of remembering where I had to be and when, I was free to not worry and concentrate on other things. Just make sure you have reminders on and set them, 1 day, 10 hours, 3 hours, 3 hours, 1 hour and 30 minutes before an appointment 😂

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